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Do's and Don'ts for men on dating sites
| By Leif Croonquist
Men, learn how to behave on dating and personals
Being a man and also being the owner of a
dating site myself I have to tell all my fellow
men that you are chasing all the women away.
Most of you anyway. Women are keen on how
we behave because most of us all behave the
same way on dating sites. Here is a list of
DO's and DON'TS to help keep the women at
these sites and to help you get some responses.
1) DON'T copy and paste 25 exactly same emails
and send them off. Women see right through
this and it get's you no-where.
Ever wonder why you don't get responses? That's
the first reason. DO send individual emails
and put some thought into contacting
women on these dating sites. REMEMBER: women
get 100 emails a day from all sorts of guys.
If your email has no heart then you just
2) DO spell check your email, women are so
turned off by a guy that cannot spell it shows
you are either stupid or just lazy.
The same thing goes for grammar. Take some
time to get it right guys and you will get
3) DON'T choose a nickname that has a sexual
innuendo (unless you are on an adult dating
site). Remember, women usually
like men with some class and Roger_69sU shows
that you just want a one night stand. Try
something more clever.
4) DON'T contact single women if you are married.
It is a waste of their time and is an insult.
DO read their profile and see if
they are interested in married men.
5) DON'T lie. DON'T lie. DON'T lie. Enough
6) DO not send women pictures of your "privates".
They will ask if they want to see that. DO
send them a nice picture that
shows your sense of humor or style.
7) DON'T just send an email after you see
their picture. DO read their profile first.
8) DON'T harass women that are not interested.
This ruins the site for everyone and could
very well get you banned from the dating
site forever. Many sites now have reporting
features for this very reason. DO treat all
others on the site as though you were talking
in person to them. You would harass them to
their face would you?
This is just a small list of some of the incredibly
stupid things guys are doing on Internet dating
and singles sites. Now of course there
are some great guys out there that are honestly
looking for a nice date or relationship so
any women reading this, just bear with us,
we men are slowing catching up and figuring
Hope this article helps.
About the Author
Leif Croonquist is 34 years old and lives
in Portland, Oregon. He is the owner and creator
of www.cupidsblackbook.com . He invites you
to join if you behave ;)